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Private Dating Record & Guide

LOVODEX.

Record what happened. Notice what repeats.You decide what it means.

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LOVODEX home screen showing active records and notices.
LOVODEX Add Someone screen — starting a private record.

The Private Record

Record what happened.

Keep people, dates, interactions, status, notes and context together in one private record.

  • Add Someone

    Start a private record with name, source, status and first note.

  • Log Date

    Capture what happened, where, when — and how it felt.

  • Log Interaction

    Messages, calls, cancellations. The mundane facts that repeat.

  • Chronological Timeline

    Every entry stays in order, never edited into a story.

  • The Receipt

    A factual read-out of the record as you logged it.

  • Active · Aftermath · Archived

    Status changes without losing the history.

LOVODEX does not tell you whether a relationship is good or bad. It keeps the record.

The Receipt

See the full record.

Timeline, Receipt, and factual history in one private place.

The Receipt

LOVODEX keeps the record.
You decide what it means.

Every entry is preserved as logged. No AI rewrites your history. No score is ever applied to a person you record.

LOVODEX person detail — the timeline of a private record.

Notices

Patterns, not predictions.

LOVODEX can surface factual Notices when something in your own record repeats. It never scores a person, and no algorithm decides whether you should date someone.

Examples of factual Notices

  • Repeated cancellations3× in 2 weeks
  • Initiation ratioYou: 82% · Them: 18%
  • Status durationSituationship · 4 months
  • MilestoneFirst meeting · +90 days

Notices are based only on what you record.

What LOVODEX will never do

  • Red flags
  • Compatibility score
  • Toxicity
  • Diagnosis
  • Prediction

No algorithm decides whether you should date someone. LOVODEX surfaces what you have already seen — and lets you name it.

Guide

Get context, not clichés.

A pre-authored editorial guide to modern dating. Read, browse and search — not chat.

100
Answers
11
Field Guides
14
ALMOST Patterns
25
TWBE Case Files

Ask LOVODEX is not an AI chat. It searches 100 authored answers on love, dating and heartbreak. What you get back was written, not generated.

LOVODEX Guide screen — Ask LOVODEX, Pattern Library, Field Guides.

14 ALMOST Patterns

Name the in-between.

Browse 14 illustrated almost-relationship patterns.For recognition, not diagnosis.

  • The Almost

    The Almost

  • The Orbit

    The Orbit

  • The Secret

    The Secret

  • The Situationship

    The Situationship

  • The Between-Thing

    The Between-Thing

  • The Borrowed-Time

    The Borrowed-Time

  • The Convenience

    The Convenience

  • The Reserve

    The Reserve

  • The Relapse

    The Relapse

  • The Review Period

    The Review Period

  • The Benchmark

    The Benchmark

  • The Mutual Hostage

    The Mutual Hostage

  • The Ex You Still Sleep With

    The Ex You Still Sleep With

  • The One Who Got Away

    The One Who Got Away

Patterns are for recognition · Not auto-associated with private records

25 Case Files

Browse 25 case files.

Funny, illustrated typologies from The Worst Boyfriends Ever. Comic archetypes, not clinical categories.

The Gambler
№02The Gambler
The Ghoster
№03The Ghoster
The Party Animal
№04The Party Animal
The Pet-Obsessed
№05The Pet-Obsessed
The Crier
№06The Crier
The Liar
№07The Liar
The Narcissist
№13The Narcissist
The Wizard
№17The Wizard
The Perfectionist
№25The Perfectionist

Full set of 25 cases inside the app.

Library

Read or listen.

Full reading content and audiobook chapters where available — inside the same LOVODEX universe as the Guide.

The Worst Boyfriends Ever cover

Read + Listen

The Worst Boyfriends Ever

25 illustrated case files. Comic, cutting, honest.

ALMOST cover

Read + Listen

ALMOST

The book of the in-between. 14 pattern types.

Terms of Living cover

Read + Listen

Terms of Living

Essays on modern love, endings and the after.

Reading & listening progress travel with the record.

Your Wiring

Five independent dimensions.

A private snapshot of how you tend to respond when connection gets uncertain.No personality type. No compatibility score. No attachment diagnosis. No overall score.

  1. 01

    Signal Sensitivity

    How closely you read cues, tone, timing.

  2. 02

    Uncertainty Tolerance

    How you sit with what isn't yet defined.

  3. 03

    Proximity Need

    How much closeness feels like connection.

  4. 04

    Repair Instinct

    How you move toward, or around, rupture.

  5. 05

    Exit Threshold

    When leaving stops being unthinkable.

Keep it private

Private by design.

Private records stay on your device. Public editorial and audio content may use the internet — but never carries your private data with it.

  • On-device by default

    Private dating records stay on your device in encrypted local storage.

  • No account

    No LOVODEX account is required to use the app.

  • No ads · No tracking

    No advertising SDK, no analytics or tracking SDK bundled.

  • No AI reading your records

    No model is fed your private records for training or analysis.

  • Encrypted portable backup

    You choose when to export an encrypted backup file — and where it lives.

  • App lock

    Biometrics or PIN gate the app on supported devices.

Platform / store-level data may still be handled by Apple & Google independently.

LOVODEX Me tab — Keep it private: app lock, encrypted backup, no LOVODEX account required.
Aleks Filmore, author and creator of LOVODEX.

Built by

Aleks Filmore.

LOVODEX grew from the same modern-love universe as The Worst Boyfriends Ever, ALMOST and Terms of Living.

An author about modern love built a private dating record — because a good story of a relationship almost never matches its actual sequence of events. LOVODEX keeps the sequence.

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Private Dating Record & Guide

Record what happened. Notice what repeats.

One-time purchase · No subscription